Understand Love and Attachment
Hold Me Tight® is based on the science of Attachment Theory. Attachment Theory holds that for human beings to function optimally, we must have safe, reliable relationships with significant others. Further, for most of us, the most significant other is our partner or spouse. This sense of safety and security is an emotional need just like oxygen is a physical need. Without this sense of emotional security, we do not do well emotionally or physically and our predictable reactive patterns emerge, causing negative cycles of protest and withdraw, which further deteriorate the connection. We will talk much more about negative cycles later in the day but in this module, we review the extensive scientific research validating Attachment Theory, which is fundamental to understanding EFT and on which Hold Me Tight® is based.